Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but I was only kidding. 



Speaker 2: That's not quite an apology. 



Speaker 1: Okay, then what's a better way to apologise? 



Speaker 2: I'm glad you asked. First up, remind yourself this chat will help you in your relationships. Next, you need to take some responsibility for your actions and the feelings you've hurt.



 

Speaker 1: Okay, so I need to acknowledge how I've impacted them?



Speaker 2: Correct. And an apology also includes a corrective action to acknowledge that you won't do it again.



Speaker 1: Right. So, take some accountability and try not to do it again. 



Speaker 2: Yes. And after you've said sorry, give them some time to process and respond. Forgiveness won't be instant and they might need to think about it. Focus on being an active listener instead.