Rashida: Ugh. ‘If they wanted to, they would. No, I don't agree.



Text on screen reads: ‘Dabaco Doldissen, psychotherapist, @sunset_psychotherapy’



Dabaco: It's kind of what I would read on a…



 Rashida: Reddit thread.



Dabaco: Reddit thread. The bedroom advice giver therapist saying, "Girl, you just got to get out of that relationship." It's really creating a very black and white binary to complex relational dynamics. I think we need to be giving more time and really getting curious about why things are happening. Even if you've asked your partner repeatedly to do a particular something and they're not showing up in that.



Text on screen reads: ‘Rashida Dungarwalla, psychologist, @flowstate.space’



Rashida: We may be moving into expectations that people, partners, are supposed to meet every one of our needs. And no, they’re not. Right? Like, they are definitely there to support and and meet certain needs and, you know, be there as a partner. However, they're not going to be able to meet every single need that you have.